The Authors of Writes of Passage

The Authors of Writes of Passage

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

MAKING AN IMPACT Guest Blogger, Carol Cox


Thanks, Carol, for filling in for Judy. We always love hosting you, lady. Today is another great post!

Over the past week, my mind has been flooded with memories—some of a recent trip and some from much longer ago. The trip was one my daughter and I made when we spent a couple of days driving around northern Arizona. One of our favorite stops was Meteor Crater, about 35 miles east of Flagstaff.



There are numerous meteor impact sites around the world, but this one is the best known and best preserved, created when a chunk of iron-nickel from the Asteroid Belt spun off into space and headed this direction, careening through our atmosphere and plunging to earth at a speed of thousands of miles per hour.

This is the largest discovered fragment from the 150-foot-long meteorite. Imagine it being a boulder 15 stories tall, hurtling toward us.



You’d certainly expect that kind of impact to make a good-sized dent in the earth, but a crater 550 feet deep and nearly a mile across? Wowza!

If the area had been populated at the time that meteor hit the ground, you probably would have seen headlines like the one the little newsboy is peddling below.



Here’s a photo of me standing at the bottom. Whew! That was one long hike down. And it’s going to seem even longer, going back up.



Okay, not really. The crater is off-limits to hikers. But the museum has a lovely backdrop set up so you can try to convince your friends you actually managed to make the trek down.

I mentioned memories from long ago as well as these recent ones. This week, I attended the funeral—actually the homegoing celebration—of a woman I’ve known since childhood.

Her daughter and I met in third grade (more years ago than either one of us wants to admit) and wound up attending the same classes all the way through high school and college.

During those years, I got to see a lot of her family. At that time of my life, I was a churchgoer, but they had a relationship with Christ. Her parents never once tried to push their beliefs on me, but they lived out their faith in a way that spoke louder than words ever could.

Her mother offered a listening ear during the ups and downs of my teen years, always made me feel I had value—not because of what I did or didn’t do, but because of who I was. For someone who grew up convinced my worth depended on performance, that kind of unconditional acceptance was simply mind-boggling.

Her Christ-like witness helped lay a foundation that played a large part in my coming to know Jesus as my Savior. And she had a major influence in my choice of college . . . where I met my husband. In a very real sense, if it hadn’t been for her, the family I treasure today wouldn’t exist.

Not only that, but that early influence has trickled down to reach anyone who has been touched in any way through our years of ministry or by any words I’ve written.

At the funeral, the same phrases were heard over and over again from people who knew this special woman: “She encouraged me. She believed in me.” It was amazing to realize that the influence she had in my life can be multiplied hundreds—perhaps thousands—of times in the lives of others.

What a testimony to the impact a life can make when Jesus shines through it!

Which brings me back to Meteor Crater and the way one brief moment of contact can produce such far-reaching effects.


What kind of impact am I making on others? If I honor the Lord in my life, that impact just might reach much farther than I could ever dream.

What about you? Has anyone made a difference like that on your life? Want to share it with the rest of us?

~Carol


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A quick note from Judy on the winner of the prize she announced on last week's blog post, a copy of A Patchwork Christmas tucked inside this cute Amana bag is: 

Veronica Brayboy

Woohoo! Yay, Veronica! Congrats, lady. Judy will be in touch to let you know how you can claim your prize, sweet lady!

10 comments:

  1. Oh Carol, the mere sight of the word "Flagstaff",set my heart pounding,with excitement at the thought of our forthcoming trip! Didn't you dub me as an Honorary Arizonan? :)
    I am so looking forward to seeing a little of Arizona...I say little, not because I don't want to visit, but simply because of the time factor.:(
    Your pics of Northern Arizona with the craters and meteorite are awesome,dear lady.
    I hope I have the pleasure of catching up with you too, if at all possible.:)
    Thanks for a great Geography and History lesson. Something more to add to my already long bucket list for a visit.LOL!

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  2. Carol I meant to say how Blessed you were indeed, to have met your"surrogate" Mum. What a wonderful inspiration she was to you!:)
    I have often thought about the people that have influenced my life and have been blessed by some very special friends that I always thought just "happened into my life. I don't take that for granted anymore. God showed either them or me the pathway, so that we could meet.
    I also have some very special people that I know Spiritually,yet have never met in person.
    That day is now not too far away.

    I consider myself very blessed to have become part of and accepted into Writes Passage..our Family Blog. Everyone of you has become a special part of my life and I feel will always be there with me no matter what happens.
    God certainly works in mysterious ways.:)

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  3. Rosie, with that Flagstaff connection, you are definitely an Honorary Arizonan! I'm thrilled that you'll be visiting here before long. I know you're time will be limited, but I hope the places you're able to visit will make wonderful memories for you. And I do hope we'll be able to connect while you're here!

    I loved your comments about the Writes of Passage family. This is a special place, and God has woven so many lives together through this blog. As you said, none of this "just happens"! : )

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  4. Welcome Carol!! It's always a delight to have you with us, and your post today really set my thoughts in motion. We just never know how we are impacting others or how far the impact will travel. I genuinely believe the Lord wants me to be an encourager, in the little everyday happenings of life. So I strive to be extra-kind to cashiers, the boy bagging my groceries, etc. But I also strive to be open to whatever the Lord would have me do (although some days I don't feel I'm making much of an impact at all). ~ Wow, for a minute I really believed you'd made the hike to the bottom of that crater, and I was thinking how wonderful you looked--not a bit tired or sweaty, LOL. ~ I'm so sorry about your dear friend's passing, but how glorious you'll see her in Heaven one day! And it sounds like she was truly an Angel in your life. ~ There have been SO many folks who have impacted my life in such wonderful ways, but I must say my precious Mama and Daddy were truly my very best friends. They were always there for me, and made me feel loved--no matter how badly I did on a test, or how poor my choice of a boyfriend might've been*grin*. Even though they're now in Heaven, I talk to them in my heart everyday, and know they're still with me. ~ CONGRATS to Veronica on winning that wonderful prize!! And Miss Judy, we do MISS you today (even though we love Carol too). Hugs from Georgia, Patti Jo p.s. Carol, have I told you that I LOVED your book Love in Disguise?!? Oh my--a keeper on my shelf!!!

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  5. Patti Jo, that gift of encouragement is evident in your posts here. Those acts of kindness can have a wide-reaching effect, even when we don't realize it. A few years ago, I had a chance to tell my friend's mother what an important role she had played in my life. She had no idea the things she did had made such a difference, but for me, they were life changing. Finding out how our lives intertwined with others is one of the many things I'm looking forward to in Heaven!

    And I'm so glad you enjoyed Love in Disguise! Hearing that put a big grin on my face. You're definitely in encourager mode this morning! : )

    I'm looking forward to hear Judy share about her adventures this week in a future post. (No pressure, Judy. No pressure at all. )

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  6. Thanks Carol for your guest post. I learned something new today. My Mom always told me to learn something new every day. Enjoyed your blog so much went and put my name on your blog list. Thank you.

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  7. Welcome back Carol! Great post! There have been many people that have made an impact in my life, but the most recent one was Mrs. Betty McCullough, she was a composer, musician and recording artist of gospel music. When I met her she had retired from her travels and the Lord put us together, I say that because not only was there a difference in age and marital status but also personalities. We had one single thing in common, we both loved to worship God in music. And during a time when I was so broken from grief after my husband's passing, God introduced me to a woman that though she was still married, she was well acquainted with suffering. God allowed her to mentor me for about 9 years. She recently went home to be with the Lord this past spring. But she left such an impact on my life, I will never be the same. She was proof that God heard my silent prayer to bring me someone that would help me during a very hard time. He is so faithful!
    What a suprise that I won the book and bag from Judy! I am so excited! Thank You! Thank You! xoxoxox

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  8. Cherie, I'm so glad you enjoyed the post, and I'm thrilled to have you as a new subscriber on my blog. I look forward to "seeing" you there!

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  9. It's so good to hear from you, Veronica! I love your story about Mrs. Betty McCullough. What a beautiful example of God's faithfulness in meeting every need in our lives, especially in our darkest moments. Thank you for sharing that, and congratulations on winning Judy's giveaway!

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